You have to realize that he is trying to fit back in not to mention going through OW withdrawals and that takes time for them to get through.
As much as we don't want to admit anything about the OW, they did have an emotional attachment to them. We never had any emotional attachment but to our spouses. So therefore, they need the time to get rid of all these feelings.
This is the hard part for them coming home. This is where the unconditional love that you have for them comes into play again. You realizing that they are going through all of this and just being patient with them. The more pressure you put on them to get things back to normal, the feeling of running again will come back. You don't want them to run, you want them to stay there and work on the relationship.
So just be patient with him. Let him work through this, but be there for him the best that you can.
