Yup.. if they would for a second realize the truth of the situation and man up for a change, they would be in a better place.. they just don't get it. you can blame all you want.. but unless you take some responsibility and deal with the problems, they aren't going to disappear...
ugh.
I am Court.. I am at a point of my life where I know I'll be just fine either way..
Hugs to you...
I agree. I have recieved a ton of TM recently from my WAS. The majority were her blaming me for where we are. Pretty sure I didn't make the decision for her to cheat and leave. I have no intention of taking responsibilty for her choices. And all it does is strengthen my resolve. Clearly, no real remorse yet.
