Wow!! You win the prize for the catch-up read of the week, Cath!!!
What a whirlwind!
First I think it's GREAT that your H is back home.
I also think it's a very good sign that he assigned responsiblity (working late) properly on the hunting miscommunication.
Also, I want to let you know that although I would have liked it differently and did NOT appreciate all the lies, CJ was still in contact with OW in the first months of our "piecing"...
In all truthfullness? This is the time frame in which she BURIED herself, showed her true colours and firmly turned CJ back in my direction (of course the solid DBing didn't hurt either ).
It really was a time of getting to know each other again, doing fun stuff, SHOWING my new, less reactive, more attractive self.
I DID have suspicions, we even had a fight about it...the very night he called and broke it off with her for the second and last time...but up till then I felt things were so fragile that I just kept DBing.
It's a process...YOU know that! Deep Breaths, enjoy the little things, let other little things slide!
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