[Truegritter]

NLG

This just came up on another thread about after the A and building trust

I love the idea that came up earlier about trust and verify.

I am a huge believer in this once a relationship is being rebuilt or built anew.

You understand that Verify might as well be SNOOP, right?

That is how you verify...even better if the spouse understands that you will be doing that occasionally.

And a spouse whom has broken trust, but wants to rebuild it, they should be be understanding and while perhaps not happy with it...accepting of it.