I went through my thread and re-read alot of things I missed the first time. I really need to focus on not letting my emotions get in the way. I am really battling with trying not to do things that are persuing. That was a big part of what I lacked before. I really want to show her I care but you are all right, it's just making things worse. I will just be cooperative with the division, it's just stuff, it doesn't define how my R will play out. Right?