Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

GM

I know what you mean on the rejection thing. My C helped me with that early on. I told him that and his feedback was that in my W's mind, she felt "rejected" in the M. You know your W, so think about that and if you think she might have felt rejected in the M (again from her view), then it can help you deal with your feeling of rejection.

I totally understand this now. Since I was always worrying and on edge most of the time we weren't close physically. I accept my part on this however she would be in a bad mood and not treat me kindly then she would want to be intimate. Well after being treated like crap I wasn't in the mood to give back.
And so the cycle was developed. She told me she felt rejected when I there for her physically.

I understand her point and when I emailed her to meet I added a PS that stated " PS. I know excatly all the feelings you have had over this past year. I have felt them too now."

I have felt her reject every move I made that's why I feel I'm totally detached from the situation now. I am not angery just not worrying any more about what W thinks.

What I was doing before wasn't working so I thought I try something else.

I do like the WHY questions. I will agree with her and then ask the why Q.

Asking questions will be beneficial to helping understand where her mind is now.

Check back, I might have more thought to run by you.
gr8