My ex texted me the day we were telling the kids..."It sucks but they deserve to live in a place where there isn't so much tension and fighting. It's just a big mess we made...sure it will change their lives forever but what scarring was being done before?"
Meaning better to live apart in peace than together in turmoil. Cause apparently there was no option C in his world, where we figure out our differences and move forward together without all the tension...very black/white mentality on the WAS's....
I agree BBJ...the WAS never sees that trying to work on the existing relationship is an option! But then again, that would mean examining their own actions and maybe having to make changes to themselves.....much easier to blame the other person and run away!
Last edited by bright_new_day; 05/07/1004:11 PM.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
