Tattoo... As ROBX and others have said, you must follow reality.. You cannot fight it. When you do it will only drive her further away. If its meant to be that your together she will come back... As I mentioned to you, I am in a similar situation. I tried and said everything. Its not helping, and finally I am accepting of it. I am following reality.
Who knows, as I have been told you may realize as well that this isnt what you want and you will be happy with somone else..
Dont walk around with a chip on your shoulders. Chin up, and be the better person and accept reality.. Its tough I know as I am having a tough time with my own advice but right now time apart may be what the doctor ordered..
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)