I just have to post one more thing. Our miscommunications on who was hunting/who wasn't and are little back and forth trying to decided who's fault it was...well a light bulb just came on now about this whole conversation and who's fault it really was.
He finally said "why does this always happen to me" meaning whenever he has plans to hunt or go north he ends up working late or on a Saturday. I did agree with him and said "I know" it does always seem to be that way. So once the blaming was over, it did just come down to the fact that he ended up working when he really wanted to be hunting.
Does this make sense? Unconsioulsy he was placing the blame where it belonged...his job. If he wouldn't have to work none what happened yesterday would have been issue or even there.
I also have to keep reminding myself that H is coming here tonight and staying!!!
