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Boot camp Day 3 Done!!!

So tired though went to bed 12:30 got up at 5 to work out. Thank goodness for protein drinks didn't have time for breakfast...

Last night was fun, it was Fine Arts Night at high school. Several of my favorite speech kids were there to perform, mainly the seniors. I will miss them! Hung out with R for most of the evening, back to being sarcasm buddies which is a good thing. Esp. considering we have an all-day meeting for speech coaches on Monday...

Italian Golfer (IG) texted a few times yesterday. Go figure, his name is Jeff! smile So that means he must be a good guy, right? Not a very Italian sounding name though... smile Anyway he wants to call me 'so we can talk first' according to him. So I guess that is like a phone interview?? smile We'll see what happens there...

Oh and haven't spoken to Dan in 2 days which isn't long but for us it is. I guess I briefly spoke to him Weds. after school when I needed to know where he left the baseball equipment for Nathan. But he didn't call the kids Weds night or last night as he usually does to say goodnight. Which is fine with me. Prob has gf on the trip with him, wouldn't be surprised...

OK time to get some work done. Really just want to take a nap....

Did I mention we had a total waste of a thunderstorm last night?? wink Yeah, this 23 months thing is getting old. Somebody kiss me already! grin


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((((((BobbiJo))))).... mwaaaaaah!

I think the phone interview is a good idea. I think you can tell a lot, one way or the other, and the "risk" is low.

And, may I say, that in my opinion the guy that attracts BBJ is one lucky guy! Hopefully Jeff the Italian is at least not a creep! smile And doesn't make you throw up!

HUGS, BobbiJo!

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Thanks, Jeff. I needed that. smile


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Lifted this out of an article Thinker just posted on wives with Victim Mentality. However it fits my ex to a T as well!

It’s impossible to have a loving relationship of equals with a professional victim. She goes through life feeling slighted and angry, never taking responsibility for her actions or life. Good luck trying to talk to her about this. You’ll meet with extreme defensiveness and more blaming behaviors. Her only identity is that of victim: If she doesn’t believe she’s being victimized, then who is she? Someone who treats other people like crap and who is pissing her life away. It’s a matter of psychological self-preservation versus ego annihilation.

You can’t have a healthy and happy relationship with someone who holds you hostage and controls you through guilt, emotional blackmail, and blame. This type of person rarely changes

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WHOA!!!!! That really is Dan isn't it?


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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Yeah, this 23 months thing is getting old. Somebody kiss me already! grin


I can so relate to that.... wink


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Yeah, this 23 months thing is getting old. Somebody kiss me already! grin


I can so relate to that.... wink


Liar Liar Pants on Fire!!! You had cute younger guy, I remember! grin


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Hey you did get a peck, but I do know what you are saying and asking for. lol Heck I am asking a guy to come meet for crying out loud (cause I need a refill) wink

Oh this Friday is looking like it is going to be a naughty day.

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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
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Yeah, this 23 months thing is getting old. Somebody kiss me already! grin


I can so relate to that.... wink


Liar Liar Pants on Fire!!! You had cute younger guy, I remember! grin


Yes I did. But there was no kissing involved...just straight up sex.


I want the hand holding and the kissing...as well as the straight up sex...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Yeah but again, yours is a refill! No fair!!

In college some frat guys I knew used to joke that their pick up line was, "Nice shoes, wanna f@ck?" Pigs, all of them!! grin

But at this point I could go with, "Nice shoes, wanna make out?" wink


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