FWIW, my exH has the same twisted type relationship with his mom. When I was packing up his stuff including old cards from me I found letters from his mom when we were in college talking about how she had to get used to "sharing" him with me...gag!
My IC says until he figures out how to extricate himself from his mommy and her stranglehold he will never be fit for a healthy relationship with any woman....and that is out of my control. She was so excited when he got his own place she went out and bought a crock pot, dishes, art for the walls, etc all the while saying how bad she felt that he was leaving me. Yeah right!
