If I have already let you know this, my apologies, but I had something similar and it eventually calmed down. I wasn't sure what to do either. My C advised me to go along with her. I guess it's an action that shows you hear what she's saying and understand how she's feeling.
In my case, we started the division. Ran into a couple of stumbling blocks the FIRST day we were doing it (things that are not easy to divide). I was cooperative, but put most of the effort of doing it on my W's shoulders. She started "running out of steam" if you will, but couldn't get angry with me since I was being cooperative.
After a few days, she started changing her mind on how she wanted to handle some things. In my opinion, and I think Greek shared something similar in another thread that I read, when you start taking ACTION like that, it does allow the WAW time to think.
Don't know if it'll happen that way for you, but that's what happened when my W and I started the division stuff.
