So how pathetic is this, I found the jeans he wore yesterday and they do smell like a bar, so he was definitely drinking and since he went right after work, H was in the vicinity of OW's.
Quote: T2 could help you with some of this. It is very difficult when the S come home. We are use to one mode and then we have to kick in to a totally different one. All I can say is what I learned from T2; this is not easy!
EASYis an understatement!! I'm still in H is gone mode, I'm so used to that MODE! Basically on the weekends there was very little contact and now that H is back I'm still in that mode. When is T2 back anyway, I think I'm going to really need her through this.
Quote: So hold on and keep doing what you've been doing. My guess is he will be going through OW withdrawal. Give him space and don't push!
I'll keep doing what I've been doing, it's become second nature. The OW thing is going to be rough, I don't want to live the rest of my life wondering every day where H is, can I believe him, the trust thing.
I just can't describe my feelings right now. Maybe it's similar to a family who's been the waiting list for adopting a child for a year and then get a call saying, we have a baby for you. And your instant parents, no nine months to prepare for it.
Quote: Hope you are having a great weekend!
Deb, I'm having a great weekend!! I've hardly seen my H, which might not be such a bad thing, he'll be hunting most weekend till the end of this month, so it'll maybe give us both time to adjust.
