I have no choice really for my own sanity. I feel compassion for what my H is going thru right now and this life I am living now is a new one so the adjustment will take time.
Wow! You get this...there are people here that have been working a long time and they get stuck before realizing this...
Absolutely it's all YOU.
Keep your focus...
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am