I mean.. look at it this way.. I don't want to live my life persecuting him for what he did. If that's the case, then WHY am I doing all of this? Why am I trying to move mountains to be with this man and make this work? To be miserable and make him miserable? nope..

I want to be able to have conversations with H where we can discuss things like this and not have me pointing fingers at him.

just the other day, we were talking about this woman MIL knows who just broke up a man and his fiance.. (mind you she broke up another guy's marriage just before. the guy left his wife and twins to be withthis girl and when he did, she dumped him) now she met some doctor with his wedding only a few months away and as the wedding is coming up, he decides to call it off and be with her and she then dumps him. so H makes the comment "WOW, she is a wh0re.. what a homewrecker!" and I bit my tongue and agreed with him but in my head, all I thought was sh!t, funny how he thinks this girl's a homewrecker AND wh)re but meanwhile he doesn't see OW as that and meanwhile OW knew he was married with kids from the getgo. hmph lol

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson