Wow - I knew there was a reason that I moved over to pieicing! I can only hope that I can report such news sometime!
I will be curious to know how you address all of the stressors added by his return. I have some of the same thoughts about my own sitch due to the weird parallel relationship I find that we are in.
I would agree with those who have suggested just easing back into your R and letting your actions around others speak for you. You don't need to explain his return - just savor it.
Enjoy this second honeymoon - here's hoping it will last until eternity. Prayers for you and your family.
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"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."