Thanks for stopping by. I wish I had some great pearls of wisdom to offer you. I think people get in a habit of treating someone a certain way and the receiving person gets used to having it pushed on them. It is a terrible cycle. Someone needs to break it or this rut will break you.
Try to set aside a bit of money to get things fixed. It certainly isn't any fun to have things falling apart around you. I think it would lift your spirits too.
Also really try to make a certain block of time yours each week. Do what you want and that time is exclusively yours.
I hope you get a release from all of your stress soon.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory