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He thinks he can just waltz in and out of our lives whenever he wants to, no responsibilities, he's never had any responsbilities, he couldn't handle them in the past either and he doesn't want any.

I'm not waiting forever for this idiot to wake up and smell the coffee or the diesel fuel!! It just kills me that I let him treat met the way he does, the way he just moved out and thinks it's okay. My goodness so he's having a problem with his life, than fix it and be a man!

That's just it he's such a man that he can't be anything else. Can't ask for help, doesn't let me help him, doesn't care that I loved him and that I was going through my own problems...and here I sit at work crying about the f****** idiot. I am sooo sick of this whole bunch of crap.

If I had enough money and didn't have so many responsibilites I'd be out of here in a minute with son. I mean move to another state and say the hell with you H you with OW so stay with her, she can have your sorry a**.



I'm sorry, Cathy... I'm rereading your old posts. Your sitch sounded like mine!! I guess I am jealous that you have skipped ahead, but very happy for you. Anyway, what you wrote above is how I'm feeling today!! Especially the "sorry a**" part!!

How do I do this? How do I get on with it? And what is ahead? MORE WORK


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