forward, I hear you my friend. and believe it or not I do encourage son to tell dad how he feels, and I also think it would be better coming from son. but like I said Im stepping back now because I just feel like ex is a complete fruitcake and I cannot be bothered, not saying that I wont ever bother, but Im sick of it all and Im sick of being treat like something off the bottom of ex's shoe. to hell with him x
Oh forward I will my friend, my sons relationship with dad is my main concern, I will do anything and everything to help with that, its just that I feel I have held out my hand of friendship to ex to enable his realationship with son to flourish, and all I get is kicks in the teeth, I dont see how we are supposed to be co-parenting when ex has told son he doesnt want to text or phone me again, obviously it is my fault about something or other again, well I can wait, and I wont be phoning or texting ex anymore, if he wants me to know anything he knows my number, x
Mandy, I know you mean well and I do believe that you have done everything you can, but you just cannot reason with these people. They want everything their own way, and even if they get it and something goes wrong, its never their fault. Best thing for you is to have ZERO contact with him. Your son is old enough now to communicate with his father, let them work things out.
forward my friend, as you are aware ex does find ways to get to me, if you are referring to it in the way that ex still knows which buttons to push to wind me up and annoy me. or if indeed you are predicting that ex will find a way to contact me I dont dispute it either, but it will be something he wants and information for himself if he does, it wont be anything for mine or sons benefit, oh and if he does contact me he better make sure his wifey isnt around as this is the main time he cannot contact me, but whos bothered, x
WOW I just realised it is 5 whole years since this whole mess started, how time flies. as for the ex I see no way forward from where he was 5 years ago, me Im having fun and getting on with my life. Ex is still being an a$$hole with his only child, will the man ever surface and face the damage. ex managed to contact his son last night to invite him for tea today, not a phone call or text all week, he spoke to him via facebook!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Obviously still got the pod on with me as Ive had no contact for nearly two weeks, ah well I can wait, Im in no rush to speak to ex either, lol x
Time tends to fly around here. So, he contacted your son via Facebook....sounds like he can't take a chance on calling him for fear of being rejected by your son. I do hope your X is pleasant to your son at tea.
Mandy, your pod wearer will eventually contact you. They always do touch base at some point. I'm very happy to see you are living your life to the fullest and that your son is doing well.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
