WAH Comes Back Home in the Middle of the Night

[holdingon]

Right now, I don't want him back the way he is OW can have him...until/unless he snaps out of his fog and realizes what he's left behind and that it's the best thing that's ever happened to him. When I got married my mom said that H was the best thing that ever happened to me, well she had it backwards I'm the best thing that ever happened to H.

This is my sitch, exactly. My mom loved my H. Of course, now that she is gone I guess it is okay for him to act like an ass.

What are your feelings on the OW sitch? Did he end it with her? How are you dealing with that? I know the pressure you feel. I know what you are talking about. I felt my H was headed back, then last night he was cold, did not walk me to my car, no hugs or kisses and I am sure he's talking with her. I am tired of all of this!!