Pick up last night-WH was in the parking lot when we arrived. I found out S got into the daycare we wanted so I did text him to tell him that. He said "great! be sure to tell me how much the registration fee is so that I could write a check." money money money- if he pays for enough things then it means he isn't a bad guy right? (sarcasm-but I'll take the $$)
So when I exchanged S I said "I will let you know when I find out about the fees for the daycare!" And that was about it- he asked again about the time- 9? I said yes, unless S seems tired earlier- we need to just watch and see how this bedtime schedule goes, right? He nodded.
Drop off last night- I stayed by the door. He put S in his crib, came downstairs, got his mail, stated a couple of things about S. I asked him when S was showing tiredness. My demeanor was relaxed and polite. Then I said bye and started walking away. Before he left he said "see you Sat? 4? at the house?" and that was that.
My observations are that yesterday I was being more business like friendly and he was being poker face withdrawn! Hmmm. Shouldn't that be the other way around?
Last edited by newmama; 05/07/1001:59 PM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004