But as for the current- you live with him, you have to ask him for money, he is throwing the A in your face, he is treating you like crap, this has been going on for 3 years?
He's been in the affair 3 years, I found out 2 years ago, he's been treating me poorly off and on for about a year, ever since I exposed the affair the first time.
Flaunting is not the right word. He doesn't talk about her and when he was at a school function that I know she asked him to be at, he mentioned he was there for another student entirely. Still lying-by-omission, for whatever reason...
OMG! He just winked and called me by my nickname as he left for work. Where did that come from?!!