There are plenty of us who have lived in limbo land or currently reside there!
Here is the thing- it has only been a week. I am sure that feels like forever but he is not showing you how much this hurts him, right? Don't you think he is trying to show a poker face? Do you think that he doesn't think or expect you to last long- like he expects you will crumble and ask him back?
I would highly recommend having a plan in place for visitation of your D at the minimum....maybe a draft of the financial stuff just in case.
Am not sure how far you should go at this time with division of everything or treating it like you are temporarily divorced. I think just planning for what that would look like would be good, but then focus your prayer and energy on reconciliation after that!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004