ditto what was-TOH said................it's hard to hear....I was given the same advice and just KNEW it was wrong.....concentrate on you.
A wise DB'er once (or more than once) told me that desperate and needy is not attractive......working on yourself is all YOU can do. You will become a better YOU, and if it is meant to be/H comes around, he will be more attracted to you and your M. BUT --- do not have the mindset that by doing this he WILL come back----because there are no guarantees, there is not magic pill, there is no RIGHT way to do this. The only guarantee is that you will be OK - with or without your H, so find a way to be the best you you can be!
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
