Originally Posted By: timehealsall


Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. it's not saying that you're going to FORGET.. It's saying that you are going to let go of the hurt and not let it weight you down and rather, you are going to let yourself live and move on.



i guess i still struggle to acheive getting to the point where i can move on and not weigh me down...i think i am getting better but not sure if i will ever get totally to that point and it kind of scares me.

I fought so hard for her not knowing about the A - once the A was out in open and she realised how OM used her, she returned to me....but i don't know if i should be fighting any more after what she did...i love my W and my family, hence my struggle.

strange thing life is....

gman

Last edited by gman; 05/07/10 01:35 PM.
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