Can you expose this to the school newspaper? I mean if the Provost is allowing teacher-student affairs, than... No names would have to be named. Just interviews with anonymous people and I think that would be some heat on the Provost...
When is she supposed to get a job?
Is your husband so addicted that he is letting work slip? If he is spending hours with here, how is his work productivity? How can the UNiversity not care?
I mean this is defnitely affecting the other students!!
If I go to the paper, they'll know it's me. I'm going to stop doing what doesn't work, even if it's morally right.
She's suppose to graduate and get her doctorate in the next few months. He has not mentioned where she's doing her post-doc, but my guess is she's planning to do it with him or someone else in the dept. Why would she go anywhere else? If she DOES do her post doc somewhere else, she'll be gone in a few months and he may return to his former self. I can hope.
He is not letting his work slip. He's always been very conscientious and has always worked long hours, which is why it took me so long to figure out that something was going on. He is DEFINITELY giving her preferential treatment and even said so in the police report. It's called "unfair advantage" and is reason for dismissal from the program. But they're not going to do anything and she knows it.
In the email, I accused her of Academic Dishonesty, among other things, and she took extreme umbrage to that. She was on the verge of being kicked out of the graduate program when my husband took over as her advisor, and now her publications are in top peer-reviewed journals. Hello! She didn't get there by herself, and it doesn't take a genius to realize it. She can take being called a slut and a homewrecker, but not academically dishonest? It all speaks to character! I honestly don't know what's going on in that lying, scheming head of hers...
