Have continued to snoop (and have access to cell phone bills) - as far as I can tell, NC in place the last month (not that she hasn't thought about it - did see a couple of accesses on pages with pictures of OM, but that's it)...she's no longer Facebook friends.
Still exhibits the behavior of having her cell on her at all times (but have noticed lately there are some instances in which it's been out and potentially accessible by me, so not like it was before, where she nearly brought it in the shower w/ her)!
NC has been in place about a month, so makes sense she might still be in mourning/withdrawal.
Would say behavior has changed toward me a little bit, but it's all over the place - 1 minute she "needs space", the next she's holding my hands in public, the next she's asking why I didn't comment on her "cute top".
DEFINITELY doesn't want anything "sexual" (and that is I think the biggest hurdle for us to cross), as we've lived a pretty a-sexual existence for so long - she's OK with the nightly peck, some non-sexual physical touch at night, but definitely doesn't want to "really" kiss me or certainly do anything beyond that (also very discrete when undressing/etc...turns her back)..."doesn't know if/when those feelings for me will come back."
Told her I can try to be patient but being in a loveless marriage is a deal breaker for me, longer-term. Think that, for me, is actually the biggest hurdle here - figuring out how to try and turn that back on after so many years (yes, am reading SSM and other books to try and figure that out)...
