You have to be able to protect yourself and children financially.
If he moved out I see this as his attempt at filing in six months.

Everyone here states that a lawyer consult is ALWAYS needed for your protection. Does not mean that you will file but you will will know what you are entitled to in case he does.
I am sorry, but I really feel that he himself has consulted a lawyer. Sorry.

Don't let him shock you with the D paperwork. Have yourself mentally prepared and legally prepared. Document like crazy and makes many, many copies of your evidence and hid them out of the house in several locations. You must do this!!

How old are the children? Can you expose to them? Many here believe children should know when old enough, I agree....

Last edited by june72; 05/07/10 01:19 PM.
M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)