The more I think and the longer I’m here, the more I think perhaps this is just an A and not a MLC,
I think this is wishful thinking but it doesn't matter because your process doesn't change one iota. I think you know what you need to do but as I said earlier your pain will tell when that is. Detach.
Originally Posted By: marked&healed
“this is just not working for me, I do not want to be the little fish while you are after the big fish.”
Why isn't this working for you? Becasue he is not doing what you want? Becasue you feel pain? That is not his fault. It is your choice how you react to all this. You don't want to push him out the door you want him to stay so you can be miserable?
You should be comfortable with whatever he does because then you are detached and realize that you can't control what he does. You can only control YOU.
No tactics, no strategies no expectations. How do you make you move along and stop feeling pain?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
