Future, It might be too soon for Retrouvaille. Lotus is right that it is a great program. It will work, but only if you BOTH have DECIDED you want to TRY to reconcile and to put all your efforts into it. Otherwise, it won't work. And if she's still thinking about OM, even if its just in her fantasies, it will be difficult. At least that's what happened to me. I don't think it will work until/unless you are to that point...and it is a pretty emotional experience. But if you get there, and you both decide openly and honestly that you want to try to get back together--after considerable thought and consideration (not just a nice kiss and a couple of hugs) then its the best thing out there in terms of giving it your best shot. I wouldn't try it again unless we were way out in terms of time and place of the A.
