All positive signs tbart. You stuck reality in her face and she actually looked at it. You're doing great man. I'd love to see you become one of the few people who actually save their marriage here. That would definitely make my day.
Now sit back and see what happens. Don't put any more pressure on her. It's obvious she knows where she is - broken and confused - and she sees what she is/has done.
It's great she is struggling that she loves you so much. It takes a lot of time for them to balance out in something like this. How old are you two? Do you think it's a midlife crisis mixed in here?
Just keep doing what you're doing. Stand up and take care of yourself. Keep DB'ing.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!