I truly hope that she doesn't move them away. I would fight her tooth and nail on that one. If you are happy with the school they are in, then why make a big change like that. The boys have already had to endure SO much why do this to them, she utterly Pi@@es me off!!
Something has happend to society and the way parents bring up their kids. I see it so much everyday, and with my own sister. Her daughter was sick last week, 103 fever... but she still felt the need to "go out" and leave her home, now mind you she was home with her father, but as a mother, how could she just up and leave her?? My sister is ALWAYS out and about, and its so self centered it makes me crazy. Yes I am from the old school I guess you would say, and no there is nothing wrong with going out without your kids, but not when they are that sick!!
Why do people have children just to leave them with someone else? She does it frequently and leaves them with my mother, who then enables her.
Anyways, ,my point is, your ex is not thinking of the boys at all,and I can't imagine the fustration you have. I think even in my case its easier for me because I am the mother, but unfortunately a lot of fathers get the shaft, and probably most of them fighting for their kids would be better off with them and not the mother.
My h loves the boys, but has no patience for them. And raising kids is ALL about patience. I'm probably the other end of the extreme, and way TOO patient.
nc, hang in there, Im praying that she will see the light on this one, or at least the PC can put a stop to it.
Keep in touch.
((((hugs)))
T
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