I've definitely heard that about heartburn. I was having it for a few days and then it stopped. I hope she has hair, though, so I'll take some more!
Bearing down in the rear, oh boy!
I got kind of mad last night again because WH hasn't even seen me since February. So he is missing out on everything. (Even when we lived together he avoided looking at me during the pregnancy-- just really couldn't handle it!)
I agree, P, about the control thing. Just last night again I realized that I was focusing too much on WH. I was mad at him, I was sad I was coming home to an empty house, sad I was going to be a single mother, etc. Then at some point either late last night or this morning I decided that I still have control over my life! I can choose to actively be angry at him or to not. I can choose to create the atmosphere in my apartment that I want. And I can choose to be positive (sharing the "joy") about raising her alone. So I'm going to try to have that state of mind more today.
P and NM are giving some good advice, BD! You're really working here. I admire people who can interact with the WH so much and stick to their guns. I'm going to have to do it some day. . .
