finishing up my thoughts about what is going on so I can go on, I came across something that makes sense to me:

The problem is caused by damaged or imcompatable Explorer settings or add on programs--- hummm sounds familiar---

(in tring to open up and get anything out of my H)

This message can appear if:

The converter was not properly registered.
The converter was inadvertently deleted without removing the registry information.
The converter support files are corrupt.
The converter installation was removed and the uninstall tool did not finish clearing the registry settings.
The hard disk is damaged where the converter files were stored.
Usually, reinstalling the converter will overcome this problem. If the converter reports that it is already installed, first uninstall it so the setup program can remove the files and registry settings.

If removing and reinstalling the converter is not successful, there may be a conflict for a resource on the computer (for example an executable file that is needed to properly register the converters on the computer has failed or stopped running). In this case, it is best to turn off the computer and start over.

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I guess when your looking most anything can speak to you.

(im thinking there is a conflict for a resource fits perfect here--and that the executable file needed to properly register in his mind our marriage commitment has failed or stopped running

In that case its best to turn it off and start over.

Last edited by jt2007; 05/07/10 10:32 AM.

M 36/ H 40
4 children
HMLC= 5/2009
sign d 3/2010 (to be final 6/10)
m16yrs/17yrs in Sept

resource for me:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1964990&page=1