Sounds like there is a lot of good going on for you, way to go!
Sorry about the whole OW meeting them. If it makes you feel any better, my H's XW remarried and her new H was the BEST of friends with kids and that lasted about a year until he became abusive. Not saying it will happen in your sitch, but just making a point that their true colors do come out. It's just too hard to hang on to a fake front, and she is definitely still in "best behavior" mode.
CW, I was chuckling at how you phrased the plastic surgery comment, THEN had to fix it. LOL!!
I hope all is all right your way today!
I'm unloading close to home today..but then I DID spend 4 days at home, so I won't go home, I'll just load for somewhere else.
My internet signal's giving me a fit, so I guess I'll be posting in spits and spurts today.
Have a good one! Gotta make some moolah, moolah!! LOL!!
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.