Is this the part where Mind and Fergie have that... You log off... No YOU log off... No YOU log off... conversation?? Or is it the, "No YOU'RE cuter" argument?
That happens privately...
Originally Posted By: mindfull
You now hold close to your heart a true gift, my friend. I wouldn't wish this kind of abandonment on you, but since you've experience it, imagine what you can truly give yourself, and someone else someday.
I know mindfull. I think you know my feelings on this.... Rob and especially you have helped me with this..
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
What Mind said. I remind myself of those things when I get down...no matter what XH says, I KNOW that I tried my very best. I know I was willing to do the real, hard work. And I know that even if the problems pre-bomb/abandonment were created by both of us, the decision to just give up and leave was his 100%. I am sure most of that is the same for you.
Yep... ^^^this^^^ My only recent interactions with the stbxW seemed to be she would be willing to "work" at trying to forgive me for my transgressions... but she doesn't want to give me false hope. I say F-that. She walked away from your M. She had a PA. If she can't live up to my new standards I've set for myself, I'm better off starting fresh.
Originally Posted By: Lost Rabbit
If you are pals with mindfull you obviously are full of fun and have a great sense of humour Hun, there are lots of ladies out there waiting for you! Her loss there gain!
That is tough to reconcile. But I'm warming up to it fairly quickly. It certainly helps to hear it frequently...
