Well, I hope it works out for you in the end Gr8. I appreciate the few of you in this thread who don't jump to erroneous and sometimes rather insulting conclusions about my Character, motives, etc. While sometimes "the truth hurts" . . .unfair character judgments are just kind of annoying.

Sounds like your Wife friends are the sort my ex hung with. For the record, they were two sisters, one who was like 29 and had been married and divorced 4 times already, and the other was actually on probation at the time my Ex left, for biting a police officer who had been called to break up a fight with her boyfriend. I vaguely remember my ex telling me about the night it happened. Talk about a Jerry Springer moment . . . . and she actually listened to these morons?

Anyway for all to consider, pick apart, whatever:
I did give her the article, and just said kinda stoicly, "You might want to read this" Then started talking about what I'd cook for dinner. She glanced at it, kinda frowned a bit, then sat it down. Kinda normal "chit-chat" stuff after that.

I saw her reading it after she took a shower and went to bed, which she does early sometimes, nothing unusual about that.
I went in and took a shower, and when I got out, I asked her about "chit chatty" stuff, like the different razors I'd bought and if she thought they'ed be okay on her legs too, since she uses my razors too. It all seemed kinda "matter of fact" and normal, conversation-wise, I don't know what to make about that, but I didn't mention the article, neither did she.

Anyway, I'm up doing this now, which is also fairly normal, since I'm pretty much an insomniac and/or night owl anyway.
(And nope, I don't do the internet porn thing or anything like that, for you folks who question my character)

If anyone gives a rats butt, I'll try to answer any questions, that seem sincere anyway. For better or for worse, I'm gonna try to keep ya'll somewhat "updated" on what's going on, at least for now, on this topic. Frankly, I'm not sure why I'm even bothering, considering many of the ill, subbordinating, and judgmental responses. Maybe someone else is wondering the same thing I am too, hope my experience helps, even if it's to say Okay . . .Bummed screwed up, not gonna do that."


Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.