So this is where everyone is hanging out ... on Cathy's Cloud 9.

Cathy, I am very happy for ya ... it looks like you got your wish! (Heck, I just finished up last night your earlier thread - "Home for the Holidays" - I'm hopelessly behind, but still trying.) ... altho I can't stop shaking my head in amazement ... showing up a one a.m. to move back in ... he certainly is unorthodox, isn't he?

Keep doing what you have been doing, but now make sure you invite him to share in your fun. Drop the rope on OR and let him pick it up for now and just follow his lead. Make coming home feel comfortable for him to help him deal with his own fears and insecurities about coming back home.

'til later,
KAW