The point is, you cannot over persue YOUR WIFE. You can overpersue a WAYWARD or a woman who is not acting as your wife.
Big difference. A woman fully committed to you will take as much attention as she can get from you, as long as its not interfering too hard in her life.
We are dealing with waywards on this website, and obviously we have to look at it as someone who is not currently in our wife role.
