You've encouraged me to think about things, and you've offered me a different perspective.
Encouragement can only encourage someone who is working hard to make sure that they either get a happy marriage or a happy future marriage. Your hard work with your IC and yourself will get you one of those happy futures...but I'm biased toward the first (:
I guess I'm biased toward the former, too!
I have been happier since I've begun to do some true introspection, think about the questions asked or ideas given to me here, read about topics that can help ME, and work with my IC and truly understand the things I can control. It has given me a lot of peace to focus on being a better me. It has also improved my mental, emotional, and physical health. It's amazing what can change in such a short time!