Marked and Healed, great post.
So true, logic and reason don't work with these WAS's in a A. Lord knows I've been pushing that trolley for 4 months and it got me nowhere. Well in fact it got me futher up sh!t creek without a paddle and gave him more reasons to close himself to me.
Emotions are the only thing that these WAHs can tap in to.
So what you're saying is we need to not do what they are doing? Which would mean we need to make decisions according to our values?