mr. bond, so i am doing the right thing? i'm giving him space to think things through. when we were still living in the same house, we never had the chance to really think about life without the other person.
h and i never really argued during our m. and even after he dropped the d-bomb, we never argued. i spent a lot of time venting to family, friends, and ic. it kept me from confronting h. i saw early on that it didn't matter what i said .. it wasn't getting through to him. so i stopped discussing the r, or any issues related to m.
he wanted space, i gave him space. and yes, i am starting to look after myself. i get the occasional panic attacks but i'm working on controlling those.
i hope that the time and space will be worth it in the end.
am i on the right track? i've read a lot of the threads here and i'm trying to find inspiration and hope.
