what you don't want is him having everything his way.
what's happening to all of us is a loss of control over our lives. we didn't make the choice to end our Ms. They have left us at our most vulnerable with a huge job ahead.
That's why you must say yes to some things, and no to other things with H.
Say, "thanks for the offer H, just let me think about how that can work for both of us".
