Hi BD and G, I am feeling better :-) Over my cold, back at my apartment with BIL, and feeling relaxed today. My baby monitor arrived today in the mail - the contraptions we use these days!! Oh la la!

I am happy to reflect the joy of parenthood because I feel it anyway (despite the circumstances, I love being pregnant, how about you gals?)

The name was something I chose a while ago and H loved it too, so there is no battle ground there. Easy.

Move forward - well, doing it anyway as there is no choice

Including him in being a parent - I have to by law anyway and since I don't want to bring her into an aggro situation, it seems best to keep it very positive around the birth and hopefully the oxytocin will be aiding and abetting that

What happens after all that... who knows?