So he is ready to get the whole thing started with the divorce process. He has told his whole family, friends everyone that we are going too. He has asked for money from his good friend so that we can fix our roof so we can put it on the market to sell. He has asked his mom to loan him money for mediation. They both said yes they would and I really don’t think he is going to change his stance. I have changed for me and he has noticed without saying it I know because I don’t bring that up bad thing to do I know I have learned from my past Anyways has anyone had this happen and things turned out for the better, as in you didn’t end up getting divorced?

I just don’t see him changing his mind, I know I know I shouldn’t worry about what he thinks or feels but come on everyone does at points it is only human nature. I am just curious to see if anyone has gotten as far in as we have and things turned around. I honestly think even if he did he is too stubborn to admit it and tell his family he has changed his mind.