Mystik--if you normally do avoid conflict, it is a 180 to inform him that you will have S for Mother's Day. Do you have S on saturday night? If so, you could just text your WH that night and tell him (after S returns to you for the night).

You should know that with regularly divorced parents--it is a given that the kids are with their Mom on Mother's Day!!!and their dad on Father's Day!!!

Tell us how you think your H would act when you tell him.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004