Just putting my two bits in, so we can compare notes. I have noticed my H's moods, nastiness, coldness, criticism.....for about 6 months before the bomb, that's how long the affair was on before I discovered it. After he moved out he was very very nice to me.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
