Thanks CW and M&H! You are right, this was an intense session and very helpful at the same time. As for my counselor suggesting when to file, I will clarify on MOnday but I think he meant if I am in pain and can't handle this in 3 months...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004