Personally, I would file for a seperation.... that is just me though. AND I would notify the school he teaches at, with some hard evidence so he can not deny things. Also, when the school year ended I would move temporarily to be closer to family maybe, possibly.

I sorry, but I have a feelings that EA may mean actually PA.

I bet others would have better advice....

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)