So my husband's having an EA with one of his grad students and after doing more of the same that didn't work, I decided to do a 180 - which also doesn't seem to be working. He's coming home later, spending more time with OW, and generally enjoying that I'm not interfering in any way.
He's sleeping in a separate room, spending very little time with the kids, and loving that I'm not keeping tabs on him. This has been going on for 3 weeks. The wedding ring's gone, he doesn't account for his time, and I'm left to do all the parenting while he stays out until all hours.
Not exactly the turnaround I was looking for. Any suggestions?
